Pooja for welfare of husbands alone?

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Our whole society is a male dominated society.  The wife prostrates before the husband.  Sometimes eats only after the husband completes eating.  The wife always take a back seat.  Even the religious poojas are male oriented.  Whether it is KarvaChuth in the North or Garuda Panchami or varalakshmi vritham in the South it is the wife who prays for the welfare and longivity of the husband.  Why can't there be any puja where the husband prays for the welfare and longivity of his wife?  Now I think there is some change.  Let this continue.  Both the husband and wife are equal there should be no oneupmanship.

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